ADHD Adults

“Is Resentment Poisoning Your Relationship? Root Out Its Source, Move Forward” [Video Replay & Podcast #594]

Access the video replay, listen to the podcast episode (#594), download the slide presentation, and learn how to get a certificate of attendance for this ADHD Experts webinar originally broadcast on January 27, 2026.

Melissa Orlov
ADHD Expert: Melissa Orlov Updated on January 27, 2026
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Episode Description

Feelings of resentment are not unique to relationships touched by ADHD. Spend enough time and years together, and many couples grapple with feelings of resentment harbored by one or both partners. But ADHD traits — like forgetfulness, disorganization, or weak follow-through — can hasten these feelings and chip away at effective problem-solving and communication.

Perhaps this scenario seems familiar: Resentment builds in one partner as they take on a majority of household and childcare duties, like arranging medical appointments and after-school activities, and paying monthly bills, because they believe the other partner can’t be counted on to do or follow through with these actions. And that partner feels nagged, shamed, angry, and inadequate, perpetuating a pattern of negative communication and relationship dissatisfaction.

In some cases, budding or long-term resentment isn’t that clear-cut. In fact, feelings may be more complicated and deserve a deeper examination.

In this webinar, you will learn about:

  • Some of the most common resentments held by couples touched by ADHD
  • The surprising benefits of holding onto resentment, even as it hurts your relationship
  • How to identify the underpinnings of your own resentment
  • New ways to think about your own feelings of resentment and how to effectively address those feelings
  • How to effectively communicate about resentment without triggering your partner
  • When to seek professional help

Watch the Video Replay

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Resentment in Marriage and Relationships: Resources

Obtain a Certificate of Attendance

If you attended the live webinar on January 27, 2026, watched the video replay, or listened to the podcast, you may purchase a certificate of attendance option (cost: $10). Note: ADDitude does not offer CEU credits. Click here to purchase the certificate of attendance option »

Meet the Expert Speaker

Melissa Orlov is the founder of ADHDmarriage.com, and ADHD & Marriage Consulting.  She helps ADHD-affected couples re-balance their relationships and learn to thrive through her seminars, books, and consulting. She has written two books on the impact of ADHD in relationships, including The ADHD Effect on Marriage. (#CommissionsEarned)

Melissa teaches mental health professionals how to work with couples impacted by ADHD and leads a team of consultants who specialize in this field. She blogs for PsychologyToday.com and hosts a large community of adults learning about ADHD in relationships. You can find her at ADHDmarriage.com. #CommissionsEarned As an Amazon Associate, ADDitude earns a commission from qualifying purchases made by ADDitude readers on the affiliate links we share. However, all products linked in the ADDitude Store have been independently selected by our editors and/or recommended by our readers. Prices are accurate and items in stock as of time of publication.

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