Emotions & Shame You Are Worthy of Self-Compassion: How to Break the Habit of Internalized Criticism “Self-compassion allows you to be good enough as you are, with your warts, with your foibles,...
“When ADHD Triggers Emotional Outbursts: Scripts for Your Flashpoints” [Video Replay & Podcast #426] Access the video replay, listen to the podcast episode (#426), download the slide presentation, and...
Emotions & Shame Your Regret Won’t Change the Past. These Tips May Save Your Future. We can’t change the past, but we can learn how to accept, forgive, pivot, and change our responses to...
Emotions & Shame 9 Ways ADHD Breaks My Heart Every Day Somedays, I am my own sadness. Other times, my loved ones stab my heart — often without realizing it...
Emotions & Shame 6 Steps to Dismantling Internalized Shame When you believe that you’re broken because of ADHD, you focus on your weaknesses and become blind to...
Relationships Gaslighting: Why Adults with ADHD Are at Risk Gaslighters often target women and men with ADHD. Here’s how to recognize when you are being...
Emotions & Shame You Are Not the Sum of Your ADHD Challenges The ADHD brain gravitates toward black-or-white, all-or-nothing thinking. The problem is that human...
ADHD Adults ADHD at the Center: A Whole-Life, Whole-Person Condition In the circle of your life, ADHD sits at the center. Its symptoms affect all areas of functioning —...
Emotions & Shame Crying, Screaming, and Hiding: All the Ways I Deal with ADHD Shame I just want to be who I am and not worry about what people think. But when shame rears its ugly head,...
Money & Budgets “What Costs More: The ADHD Tax or the Shame It Brings?” “I can set my bills to autopay. I can scrutinize my bank statements. I can remove eBay and Amazon...
Do I Have ADD? Diagnosis & Next Steps “Lazy.” “Scatterbrained.” “Weird.” What Labels Preceded Your ADHD Diagnosis? If you spent years berating yourself for being late, or loud, or distracted, or messy, or any number...
Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria How ADHD Ignites RSD: Meaning & Medication Solutions Rejection sensitive dysphoria, or RSD, can mean extreme emotional sensitivity and emotional pain for...
Guest Blogs ADHD Self-Doubt, Shame & Gaslighting “Gaslighting is deeply personal and driven by reinforced shame, which the victim usually works to...
Guest Blogs “You Can’t Buy Forgiveness for Your ADHD. But You Can Learn to Apologize Without Accepting Shame.” "Within 30 seconds of discovering my mistake, I had lapsed into fight-or-flight mode. My body moved...
Ask the Experts Q: “What Does ‘Be Yourself’ Mean for Adults with Fractured Self-Esteem?” Therapists and coaches advise adults with ADHD to ‘be yourself,’ but what if that means risking...