3 Building Blocks for Resilience
Children with ADHD learn to build resilience when their caregivers model empathy, integrate skills training into routines, and provide an emotional connection.
Finding joy and demonstrating resilience in the face of setbacks and strife – these skills are more critical than ever today. An ability to adapt grows from parent-child relationships that provide emotional consistency and encourage a growth mindset.
Likewise, a steady mindfulness practice builds resilience by breathing life into three core principles: the importance of community support, cognitive training, and enduring education.
1. Foster Community
Perseverance and compassion take root when parents and other adults provide a stable emotional connection and model effective communication. This includes staying present with children, responding instead of reacting when triggered, and demonstrating empathy.
Free Download: Kid-Friendly Mindful Meditation Exercises
2. Train the Mind
Thanks to neuroplasticity, our brains change and adapt throughout our lives. Mindfulness practices, such as breathing exercises, strengthen brain skills like awareness, focus, and emotional regulation, making life’s frustrations easier to manage.
Contemplative practices are meant to be practiced, not used only in stressful moments. By integrating mind training into daily routines, children build the cognitive and emotional skills necessary for resilience; over time, these skills become instinctual.
3. Teach Wisdom and Compassion
To navigate complex social and emotional landscapes, you need two things: wisdom and compassion.
Wisdom, in this case, includes understanding how all things and people are interconnected. Caregivers model wisdom when they make choices in life that prioritize fulfillment, joy, and well-being. It can also be explored in guided discussions, problem-solving exercises, educational books and videos, and through meditation practice.
Caregivers nurture compassion when they encourage empathy and perspective taking, pointing out that no one is without struggles. When children learn to extend kindness to themselves and others, they develop a sense of connection and belonging.
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When adults demonstrate patience, active listening, and empathy, they help their children strengthen these abilities as well. In the process, children develop the understanding and sense of belonging that are needed to face adversity, while, at the same time, reinforcing their innate compassion.
By focusing on these three aspects of mindfulness, caregivers can help children develop the cognitive and emotional awareness needed to navigate their world with grace and persistence.
Building Resilience in Children: Next Steps
- Free Resource: Make Mindfulness Work For You
- Learn: Building Resilience Begins Here – Motivation Strategies for ADHD Families
- Read: How to Build Resilience by Learning to Hope
Mark Bertin, M.D., is a developmental pediatrician and author of How Children Thrive and Mindful Parenting for ADHD.(#CommissionsEarned)
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